When I announced my decision to join the Peace Corps, I expected a mix of reactions from those around me. Since sharing my plans in 2023, I’ve received everything from excitement and support to doubts and concerns. In this post, I’ll share how my friends and family have reacted to my choice, offering a look at their various responses and what they think about my new adventure.
Reactions to My Peace Corps Decision
When I decided to join the Peace Corps, I knew it would bring out a range of reactions from those around me. As I navigate this new chapter, I’ve seen both overwhelming support and significant concern from different people in my life.
Support from My Daughters
My daughters have been incredibly supportive and encouraging about my decision to join the Peace Corps. They’ve embraced it with enthusiasm and excitement, celebrating this new adventure with me. They’re genuinely interested in what I’m doing and understand why I’ve chosen this path.
My older daughter, Hannah, has shown particular interest since she has done some overseas volunteer work herself and has even considered joining the Peace Corps in the future. Both of my daughters have shared my plans with their friends, who have admired my goals.
It’s clear that my daughters are proud of what I’m trying to achieve. Their positive reactions have been a comforting reminder of why I’m taking this leap and have strengthened my commitment to this journey.
Concerns from My Parents
On the other hand, my parents have shown strong concern and opposition to my decision. For the past three years, I’ve been their primary caregiver. Even though they’ve managed well on their own, I’ve stayed close by, especially as they approach their late 80s.
The thought of me leaving for 27 months has been very hard for them to accept. They worry about the challenges I might face and, of course, my safety.
My parents also feel abandoned and are deeply worried about my decision to move to a developing country. Their reactions reflect a strong belief that I’m making a huge mistake, and they’re struggling to come to terms with my choice to join the Peace Corps.
Their doubts and concerns have been tough for me to handle, especially given our close family bond and my role as their caregiver. I also worry about their health and well-being while I’m away.
Mixed Reactions from My Siblings
My siblings have also shown concern about my decision. They worry about how my absence will affect family dynamics and the responsibilities I’ve been handling for my parents. While they haven’t openly opposed my choice, they haven’t offered much support either. Their reactions show a mix of personal worry and family responsibility, adding to the complexity of my decision.
Supportive Friends
In stark contrast, my friends have been incredibly supportive. They’ve shown genuine excitement about my choice and have asked numerous questions about what I’ll be doing, where I’ll be going, and how the experience will unfold. Their curiosity and enthusiasm have been uplifting and reassuring, helping me stay focused on the positive aspects of this adventure.
Reactions from Acquaintances
Interestingly, many other acquaintances have responded with envy and admiration toward my decision. They often express longing, saying they wish they had the chance to serve in the Peace Corps themselves.
Their reactions have been a nice surprise and have given me extra confidence. Hearing that others see the Peace Corps as a valuable and rare opportunity makes me feel even more certain about my decision.
These comments show just how special this chance is, boosting my confidence and excitement. Their positive feedback has not only confirmed my choice but also inspired me to approach this adventure with even more enthusiasm and commitment.
Support, Doubts, and Envy
Overall, the reactions to my decision to join the Peace Corps have been a mix of support, concern, and envy. Friends and acquaintances have shown strong support and admiration, boosting my confidence and enthusiasm. My daughters have been particularly encouraging, which has been reassuring.
On the other hand, my parents and siblings have expressed concern and doubt, particularly about how my absence will affect the family. Balancing these different perspectives has been a learning experience.
Each reaction has shaped how I see this adventure and helped me deal with both the emotional and practical aspects. As I get ready for this journey, I’m learning to balance these different viewpoints and stay focused on the important opportunity ahead.
